When asked what are the signs of arousal in a man, any girl will immediately answer that it is an erection. However, how to know that a guy wants to make love if you check whether his organ is ready "for work and defense" is not possible.
Signs of arousal in men:
- Nonverbal signals.
- Courtship.
- Man's body position.
- Physical reactions.
Nonverbal cues
There are non-verbal body signals that can tell you just as well as words whether a man wants you. For example, if a guy is interested in you and wants to make love to you, he will begin to copy your actions on a subconscious level, this will manifest itself in repeating your movements and body positions. If a guy, on the contrary, starts playing "mirror" with you, this is a clear signal that he doesn’t mind taking you to the bedroom.
During a conversation, an excited man will constantly close the distance between you, doing this absolutely automatically. In the process of communication, the distances between bodies will slowly but surely decrease. The next stage is direct contact - touch. This does not mean that a man will start to give up, allowing himself too much. The cooler your relationship, the less pronounced this stage will be. It can manifest itself in light contact with hands and feet. This is body language that clearly says that a man is lusting after you. Pay attention to such accidents, which, as a rule, are not accidental at all.
Courtship
During communication, an excited man will not miss the opportunity to show attention to the object of his desire. If you are sitting at the table, he will fill your glass, serve you a snack, and in the case of a warm relationship, he will try to feed you from his own hands. The latter is a sure sign that the "client is ready", take him lukewarm, he won’t go anywhere.
An excited man will help you sit down on a chair and get up from it. He will give you outerwear and help you put it on. He will do all this not only out of politeness. His masculine nature will tell him that this is an additional opportunity to establish contact, to touch the object of his desire.
Man's body position
When he sees a woman who is interesting to him, the guy automatically turns on the "macho" mode, he straightens his back, tightens his stomach, thus demonstrating how harmonious he is and all the charms of his manly figure. If a guy is sitting, he will automatically spread his legs, showing off his groin. Spreading legs is a gesture of a confident male who has noticed a worthy female.
If you are standing opposite each other, then pay attention to which direction the toes of his shoes "look". Turned towards you means that he is interested in you.
Physical reactions
Physiologically, the state of arousal is manifested not only in the erect penis. A man’s breathing rate, voice, gaze changes, his pulse quickens, his blood pressure rises. If you see that he is adjusting his tie, which seems to be suffocating him, perhaps it is not because it is hot, but because the man is literally burning with the desire to have sex with you. At the same time, follow the man’s voice and his gaze. If he is excited, he will not be able to hide it behind a "mask".
Pay attention to the man's breathing. If he is excited, he will not be able to breathe evenly and calmly as in his normal state. His breathing will change.